So, I'm watching the Tyra Banks show right now. She is interviewing singer/songwriter/actor, Ray J, better known as Brandi's little brother, and the guy who recently made a sex tape with reality star and Playboy model, Kim Kardashian. He is SUPER CUTE by the way. As always asking the tough questions, Tyra wanted to know what value the sex tape is to Ray J, besides the money he made selling it. Will he watch it with his friends to show off, watch it by himself to get off, watch it with Kim to remember their time together? Ray J's answer to this exposing query leads us to SKP's Beauty Tip of the month.

Make a tape of yourself having sex and then review your tape to watch your technique. Did you just lie there like a fish on the beach? Were you too aggressive? Does your dirty talk sound sincere? And most importantly, do you look hot? Or you can watch a sex tape from a friend you admire and learn from the best.

For women who rarely judge themselves and never struggle with self esteem, this seems like the perfect way to bring some self scrutiny to your sex life and really tune up your technique. Thanks Tyra & Ray J for this awesome tip.